Happy Valentine's Day Eve! We're going to be chatting about toxic relationships, with your ol' pal The Anti-Cupid. (AC is not an original creation, I'm crediting 'bukkitbrown' on Twitter here and the vid for their sweet idea that I got inspo from) The Anti-Cupid is gonna learn you some important stuff: namely, what toxic relationships are and their different types, as well as ways to go about identifying and leaving those relationships. The end is more ASMR-focused, with affirmations and support. BIG TW here, this video does touch on physical abuse and I've marked the section where it is most prevalent, but it's somewhat sprinkled in throughout the video. Much of my research came from this HealthScope article regarding toxic relationships: https://tinyurl.com/ubtt96ja (link shortened for simplicity) This goes into more depth about toxic relationships and what to do about them. I am including links down below for US National Helplines as well in case you need support or resources. For others outside the US, I would suggest searching for your country's National Helpline Database. Introduction ~ 00:00 – 04:32 Relationships, amiright? ~ 04:32 – 05:26 TOXIC Relationships, amiright? ~ 05:26 – 07:07 “Depracator/Belittler” Relationship ~ 07:07 – 09:58 “Bad Temper” Relationship ~ 09:58 – 11:28 “Guilt-Inducer” Relationship ~ 11:28 – 13:30 “Overreactor/Deflector” Relationship ~ 13:30 – 15:04 “Over-Dependent” Relationship ~ 15:04 – 16:12 “Independent” Relationship ~ 16:12 – 17:21 “User” Relationship ~ 17:21 – 18:24 “Possessive” Relationship ~ 18:24 – 19:13 Some of the Difficulties with Toxic Relationships ~ 19:13 – 21:04 Where to Go/What to Do To Get Help ~ 21:04 – 24:19 (BIG TW) Dealing with Physical Altercation ~ 24:19 – 25:29 Weighing the Relationship ~ 25:29 – 26:29 Evaluating Your Relationships & Yourself ~ 26:29 – 27:39 Using Big Scissors to Cut Off Ties ~ 27:39 – 30:44 Cutting Bonds with Small Scissors ~ 30:44 – 33:50 Working with Thick Shears ~ 33:50 – 37:28 Snipping Off Last Bits with Clippers ~ 37:28 – 41:21 Reviewing What We've Learned Today ~ 41:21 – 42:34 Final Bits ~ 42:34 - 44:28 Entire National Helpline Database (USA): https://www.verywellmind.com/national... SAMHSA National Helpline (Resources Only): 1-800-662-4357 National Suicide Prevention Line ~ 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Text Line: Text 741741 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or text “LOVEIS” to 22522 Rape Abuse and Incest Nat'l Network (RAINN) 1-800-656-4673 LGBT Nat'l Hotline: 1-888-843-4564 Attributions ~ [All Sounds used from Freesound.org under a Creative Commons 0 License (https://creativecommons.org/publicdom...)] 'Cinematic Intro' from user nathan-osman 'Typewriter.mp3' from user pakasit21 Hope y'all enjoy, have a whale of a day! :) xx Calliope I want y'all to have a safe environment here regardless of where you come from, who you love, what you look like, you name it. I don't tolerate discrimination or hatred based on attributes you can't change like where you were born, what color you are, if you have a disability, or who you love– above all, be kind to one another. We're all just people, just trying to do our thing. ❥ If you want to donate (but don't ever feel pressured to!) I have two ways to go about it: Ko-Fi link (one-time): ko-fi.com/calliopewhispersasmr Patreon link (monthly perks like early access videos & exclusive content): patreon.com/calliopewhispers ❥ Check me elsewhere on the Web: The Big List Of It All: https://linktr.ee/xxcalliope Twitter: @xx_calliope TikTok: @xx_calliope Instagram: @xx_calliope ❥ Frequently Asked Questions: “Why do you ask for a preferred name & address?” While I'm a cisgender woman, I'm very aware of my audience having members that don't use their 'legal' names (I'm one of them) and use specific pronouns, or are questioning their names and given pronouns. It's just common courtesy to make everyone more comfortable here. Even if it doesn't apply to you, it may apply to others and makes the world of difference. “Why do you ask for consent to touch (even if it's a given)?” Coooommon courtesy; big thing with me. I hate being touched by anyone I don't know, but being asked even if I know I'm going to have to anyway is much more comfortable than someone putting their paws on me without warning. Common courtesy. “Is your name really Calliope? How do you say it?” Yup. It's pronounced Ka-Lie-Oh-Pee, not Kal-Ee-Ope. ❥ Channel intro created by Bearded Audio ASMR ( / @beardedaudioasmr ) :) background image is “Close-up Photo of Green Leafed Plant” from user Aditya Aiyar on pexels.com, no attribution required. ❥ My equipment: Audio Recording – Rode NT1-A Microphones, 3Dio XLR Binaural Microphone, Blue Yeti Microphone, Roland CS-10EM Binaural Microphones Filming – Lumix G85 Camera ❥ Like & comment if you enjoyed this video, subscribe if you want to see more! ❥ Thanks for watching, have a whale of a day! :) #asmr
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