5 Ways To Deal With Grief

In this video I describe 5 ways to deal with grief and loss. Grief is a process that unfortunately we cannot skip, it is natures way of helping us to adapt to a loss and a new reality. For more about this process see my video on how to know is you need grief counselling    • How To Know If You Need Grief Counselling  . However, there are a few simple things that you can do to ease your way along this painful path: 1. Set aside some time once a day to think about the person that you have lost. This will help you to process what has happened and work out a way to live without the person that you have lost. It will also go someway to contain your feelings of sadness making them feel a little more manageable. 2. Create routines and tasks that give you a sense of pleasure and achievement. This will focus your mind on the present and highlight what the world still has to offer. 3. Remember that what other people say and do around your is tangled up with their experiences and beliefs about grief and loss. This is your personal and individual journey, not theirs. 4. Look for support in the right places and when it is no longer available, move on. Get professional help if you can’t find it anywhere else. 5. Don’t rush yourself. Grief needs time. If you have any questions then please post your comments below and I will do my best to help. In the meantime, for more useful information visit: https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... ** SUBSCRIBE HERE **    / @theasmrpsychologist   ** MORE ABOUT ME ** I am the Lead Clinical Psychologist at The British CBT & Counselling Service and find that I am often the first person with whom my patients share significant and intimate thoughts and memories. I feel at ease being a therapist, I feel I can empathise with people’s distress and discomfort but don’t feel overwhelmed by it, I can understand their problem and know how to help, it has always just felt like what I should be doing. If you are interested in reading more then you may find my blog articles useful: https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... ** ABOUT THE BRITISH CBT & COUNSELLING SERVICE ** The British CBT & Counselling Service are Doctors of Clinical and Counselling Psychology specialising in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) for adults and children. Featuring 12 Clinics in London, Great Missenden and Nottingham as well as offering counselling online via Skype, the BCBT provide a team of fully qualified therapists and psychologists that offer a range of psychological therapies including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). For more information visit: https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... ** BOOKS I HAVE WRITTEN ** Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Eating Disorders: A Comprehensive Treatment Guide: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Cognitive-Be... How to Get Pregnant Fast: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Pregnant... ** USEFUL LINKS ** About Dr Gray ► https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... Blog Articles ► https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... The BCBT Service ► https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... Twitter ►   / britishcbt   Facebook ►   / thebritishcbtcounsellingservice   LinkedIn ►   / the-british-cbt-&-counselling-service