asmr therapy ~ A talk on Comparison & Insecurities (for women and men)

Today I'm choosing to voice the things we'd all rather not talk about or bring up because it sucks AND it seems cooler/more attractive to look unbothered. And it's kind of embarrassing to admit this shit affects me at times, but here's to validating ~all~ of us who deal with such a normal human behavior-- Comparison. If you'd like to support me & my channel/art, feel free to check out my Patreon 💕 I also offer a tier for collective tarot readings as well as personal readings 💜 PATREON LINK 💌   / madsasmrhaven   0:00 rambling about comparison 7:50 it's a hard world to feel secure in 11:00 relationship history (personal experience) 15:20 Communicating can be scary 18:30 Wishing you could change sometimes 19:30 How to stop: be aware of triggers 20:28 Limit your time on social media 20:42 don't compare the outsides to the insides 21:38 focus on your strengths 22:37 comparison is universal 23:09 only compare yourself to "old" you 23:55 you are not broken, you are not unlovable 24:12 The "baddie" illusion 24:53 Final words and outro