LO QUE NO SABÍAS DE CUANDO CRITICAS A LOS DEMÁS

Hi guys, how are you? Today I'm sharing a column I read on one of my social media accounts and really liked. One of the great contradictions in human beings has to do with the difficulty of honestly appreciating another's virtues, of applauding and celebrating other people's achievements without feeling upset by them. And it's not exactly envy; it has to do with what's called HIGH EXPOSURE SYNDROME. High exposure syndrome tells us that when people stand out too much in some area, they generate hatred in others. This is closely related to the fact that one's own limitations become more visible, and the level of frustration about "my dreams that I can't achieve" increases, and I demonize those who have achieved them. Insulting, criticizing, and insulting them to their face and even behind their back. Someone who stands out too much generates insecurities and creates a feeling of threat in others. Like when you tell your friends about a new project with a teacher, or a business deal with another friend, a school exchange, a prize from a contest, etc. And that's when those who claimed to be your friends seem like your enemies. Telling you that you don't even deserve to have won something and that you're incapable of creating, that you're stupid, that you're crazy if you try... People assume as a truth that those who excel are generally self-centered or arrogant. They're looking to "satisfy their ego." That's why this leads them to criticize destructively. Because these types of people end up being trained not to excel. And they don't want you to either. And it's a shame because by thinking and criticizing like this, you not only lose friends, but also abilities, genuine talents are set aside, or you give up on success itself, just because you don't want others to excel, excel, undertake something new, or want to achieve their dreams. Care about the lives of others if you're willing to help them grow. If not, don't hinder their path to success, as you'll only waste your energy. Those who don't get in the way are a great help, don't forget that. Instead, focus on yourself, the dreams you want to fulfill, the goals that shake you like an earthquake, and there's nothing and no one who has you more than yourself. Fill your mind with positive things to make a great impact in your life and thus be an example of self-improvement for others, instead of holding yourself back, stagnating, and criticizing others' desire to be great. Believe in yourself; you are your superhero. There's no great villain who can defeat the great power you have to constantly improve. And hold on to yourself, to what you want to achieve, not what others want to achieve. Forget about stopping, about spending minutes, hours of your life trying to change people's mindset and preventing them from achieving their dreams and their goals. Fly and let fly, don't let overexposure syndrome deprive you of the heights you can reach. And if you're seeing this, you're a victim of these kinds of people, who don't support your talent, your drive to undertake, or simply don't trust your abilities. "Only accept constructive criticism from those who have actually built something." Right!? (Part of this content is from Feliperiano Jaramillo) Here I'm sharing my other two social media accounts, so if you'd like, we can follow each other there, okay? Instagram:   / yes__jess   Facebook:   / jessiesaray   #yesjess #syndrome #criticas