Relationship Workshop #3 The Dance

This is the 3rd video in my relationship workshop, The Keys To A Healthy Relationship. In this video I am going to discuss the 3rd Key which is The Relationship Dance. In our relationships we engage in repetitive patterns of communications, set pieces of interactions or dances. These dances can be healthy or we can be drawn into recreating unhealthy interactions or dances from the past, because they are familiar and so feel safe, even if they don’t feel particularly good and they result in us not getting our needs met. In this video I will describe two of the most common dances or patterns of communications that I see in my clinic. I will also share some techniques for identifying your particular relationship dance so that you can step back, start to make some changes and improve the quality and experience of your relationship. Change will happen most quickly if both you are your partner are involved in this process, however, even if one of you makes a change, the dance will also change, probably for the better, because no one likes to dance on their own. If you have any questions then please post your comments below and I will do my best to help. In the meantime, for more useful information visit: https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... ** SUBSCRIBE HERE **    / @theasmrpsychologist   ** MORE ABOUT ME ** I am the Lead Clinical Psychologist at The British CBT & Counselling Service and find that I am often the first person with whom my patients share significant and intimate thoughts and memories. I feel at ease being a therapist, I feel I can empathise with people’s distress and discomfort but don’t feel overwhelmed by it, I can understand their problem and know how to help, it has always just felt like what I should be doing. If you are interested in reading more then you may find my blog articles useful: https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... ** ABOUT THE BRITISH CBT & COUNSELLING SERVICE ** The British CBT & Counselling Service are Doctors of Clinical and Counselling Psychology specialising in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) for adults and children. Featuring 12 Clinics in London, Great Missenden and Nottingham as well as offering counselling online via Skype, the BCBT provide a team of fully qualified therapists and psychologists that offer a range of psychological therapies including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). For more information visit: https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... ** BOOKS I HAVE WRITTEN ** Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Eating Disorders: A Comprehensive Treatment Guide: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Cognitive-Be... How to Get Pregnant Fast: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Pregnant... ** USEFUL LINKS ** About Dr Gray ► https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... Blog Articles ► https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... The BCBT Service ► https://www.thebritishcbtcounsellings... Twitter ►   / britishcbt   Facebook ►   / thebritishcbtcounsellingservice   LinkedIn ►   / the-british-cbt-&-counselling-service